It’s hard out there in the wedding industry, as people of faith in the service industries navigate the complicated waters of identity politics. That’s what Cynthia and Robert Gifford recently discovered when a lesbian couple tried to rent out their Upstate New York farm, which is frequently used for weddings.

Though they politely refused the couple, it didn’t stop the legal proceedings from coming. In fact, the battle in the courts lasted over three years, as the farm owners tried to hang on to their values.

The Daily Wire reports that it ended with the New York Supreme Court Appellate Division “upholding a decision by the New York Division of Human Rights in 2014, in which an administrative law judge for the state, Magdalia Pares, fined the Giffords $10,000 and ordered them to pay the lesbian couple $1,500 each.”

Judge Karen Peters wrote, “The Giffords are free to adhere to and profess their religious beliefs that same-sex couples should not marry, but they must permit same-sex couples to marry on the premises if they choose to allow opposite-sex couples to do so.”

However, the couple figured out a creative and brilliant strategy to help solve the problem in the future.  Check out the disclaimer at the bottom of their website now:

At Liberty Ridge Farm, our deeply held religious belief is that marriage is the union of one man and one woman, and the Farm is operated with the purpose of strengthening and promoting marriage. In furtherance of this purpose and to honor and promote our moral and religious beliefs, we donate a portion of our business proceeds to organizations that promote strong marriages such as the Family Research Council. The patronage of all potential clients for all services offered is welcome regardless of race, creed, color, national origin, sexual orientation, military status, sex, disability or marital status. All couples legally permitted to marry in the state of New York are welcome to hold their wedding at Liberty Ridge Farm. We serve everyone equally.

In other words, they are going to donate money to an organization that fights for the traditional family. It’s hard to imagine that a gay couple wants some of the proceeds of their wedding fees going to a conservative organization like that.

I love this creative, fair, and transparent solution.

Hat Tip: Daily Wire

Image Credit: Il Fontanaro organic farm house and holiday villas

About The Author

Mark Meckler

Mark was a co-founder of the Tea Party Patriots, and served as the national coordinator. He left the organization to work more broadly on expanding the self-governance movement beyond the partisan divide. Mark appears regularly on television in outlets as diverse as MSNBC, ABC, NBC, Fox News, CNN, Bloomberg, Fox Business and the BBC. He’s highly sought after for the tea party perspective from print and electronic media outlets, from the Wall Street Journal, New York Times, L.A. Times, Washington Examiner, Politico and the The Hill. Mark blogs at, and his opinion editorials regularly run in many of the leading political newspapers both on and offline. Mark has a BA in English from San Diego State University and graduated with honors from University of the Pacific, McGeorge School of Law in 1988. He practiced real estate and business law for almost a decade. For the last eleven years of his legal career he specialized in Internet advertising law. When not fighting for the future of our nation, Mark is an avid horseman, and lives in rural northern California with his wife Patty and two children.

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